Do you ever drop your head in your hands and wonder if it’s all too hard?
I do. Frequently. And the truth is – it is.
Here we are, slogging away at our keyboards hour after unpaid hour, blurry-eyed with lack of sleep, coffee-fuelled and hunch-backed with arthritic fingers, and we don’t even know what will happen from it all.
So, if we’re realists, we consider the possibility of self-publishing even before we’ve finished our manuscripts. We throw ourselves into the blogasphere thinking we’ll get ahead of the game, plan ahead, gain a following. Until we realise there are already a hundred bloggers to every novelist – we’re flitting around amid a galactic swarm of them. It’s probably more competitive than the publishing industry itself.
So we have to pull ourselves back to reality and ask ourselves, why are we here? What do we want from this?
When the distractions of the outside world begin to choke me and lure me away from my intentions, I remember this quote –
‘You must stay drunk on writing so reality cannot destroy you.’ Ray Bradbury
Of course, he meant it a little differently, but it works for me by reminding me why I’m doing this – a love for writing.
I enjoy this blog because I’m learning about a new medium and reaching out to new and interesting people. I’ll embrace the world of social media because it’s another learning avenue and it can be fun, but primarily it’s the writing and communicating that’s the motive for me.
In his blog ‘Ten Commandments For The Happy Writer’ Nathan Bransford mentions, ‘Enjoy the present. Writers are dreamers, and dreamers tend to daydream about the future while concocting wildly optimistic scenarios that involve bestsellerdom, riches, and interviews with Ryan Seacrest. In doing so they forget to enjoy the present. I call this the “if only” game. You know how it goes: if only I could find an agent, then I’ll be happy. When you have an agent, then it becomes: if only I could get published, then I’ll be happy. And so on. The only way to stay sane in the business is to enjoy every step as you’re actually experiencing it. Happiness is not around the bend. It’s found in the present. Because writing is pretty great — otherwise why are you doing it?’
To read the whole article click here.
It’s easy to feel lost and overwhelmed within this industry, but if we try and remember what our most important motives are, we shouldn’t lose our way. I try to keep my blog and my novel separate by setting aside specific days to write them. I find this helpful.
I’d love to hear about your own motives and how you deal with overwhelmed feelings, no matter what industry you’re in?
(The photo below has nothing to do with my blog, but I took it and I like it – so I thought I’d share it with you!!)